Hey

We all want it.

The dream number.

10K, 50K, 100K a month.

The dream house. The dream car. The dream partner.

We work hard, we pray, we ask God to grant it.

And when it doesn’t come, we sit there asking:

“Why not me? I did everything. Others worked less and got it. Am I doing something wrong? Am I less deserving?”

But maybe the real question isn’t why haven’t I received it yet?
The real question is:

Can you handle it? Are you ready for it?

Think about this.

Let’s say you’re making 10K a month. Alone.

You manage your clients, you run your website, you handle emails.

It’s smooth, under control.

Now you say, “I want 40K a month.”

You push harder, but you can’t break past 11K.

You start doubting yourself.

But here’s the hidden cost:

At 40K, you’ll have more clients than you can answer alone.

You’ll need a team. Payroll. Taxes.

Bad reviews will pop up. Problems with service.

You’ll raise prices, some will complain.

Suddenly, it’s chaos.

And a part of you wishes for the calm days of 10K again.

This is why fast success destroys people.

And slow success builds people.

When success comes fast, it gives you headaches you’re not ready for.

But when it comes slow, brick by brick, you grow with it.

You build pillars and foundations strong enough to carry the weight.

And you don’t collapse.

It’s not only business.

You want marriage—but are you ready to carry another soul’s responsibilities?

You want fame—but can you handle thousands of opinions, criticism, and the pressure of being “watched”?

Sometimes God holds it back—not because you don’t deserve it,

but because you’re not ready to carry it yet.

That’s why you can work for years seeing little progress,

and then one night, everything explodes.

Because now you’re ready.

Now God sees it’s good for you.

And when you’re ready, nothing can stop it.

Thank you for reading.

Osama aka Ols