Aug 15, 2025

Aug 15, 2025

Life Advice
Life Advice

Why I love work and hate rest (weird confession)

Why I love work and hate rest (weird confession)

Why I love work and hate rest (weird confession)

Why I love work and hate rest (weird confession)

How To Learn To Love Your Job
How To Learn To Love Your Job
How To Learn To Love Your Job
How To Learn To Love Your Job

Last month, my friends planned a beach vacation.

"Come with us, Osama. You need a break."

I looked at my laptop, then at them, and said something that shocked even me:

"I'd rather stay and work."

Not because I'm addicted to hustle. Because I genuinely enjoy what I do more than lying on a beach doing nothing.

Here's how I accidentally discovered the secret to loving work.

The Monk Mode Experiment

A year ago, I heard Iman Gadzhi talk about his system: work intensely for 21 days, then take 5 days off.

Sounded perfect. I tried it.

For months, I'd push hard for 21 days, then force myself to "rest" for 5.

But here's what happened during those rest days:

I'd travel to another city, tell myself I was relaxing, then pull out my laptop "just to check something."

I couldn't sit still. Rest felt like punishment.

When Automation Backfired

Then I read The 4-Hour Workweek. Built systems. Automated everything.

Suddenly, I had 6 hours of free time every day.

And I panicked.

Free time felt like wasted potential. So I filled it with more projects, more learning, more optimization.

I was running from rest, not toward productivity.

That's when I realized something crucial: I don't hate work. I hate purposeless time.

The Movie Quote That Changed My Routine


7 months ago, I heard this line in a film:

"Whatever you do, do it a hundred percent. When you work, work. When you laugh, laugh. When you eat, eat like it's your last meal."

It hit me like lightning.

I wasn't failing at rest. I was failing at separation.

What if I could work with complete intensity, then rest with complete presence?

What if the problem wasn't balance, but boundaries?

My New Daily System

I restructured everything around one simple rule:

Sunrise to 4 PM = Pure work mode
4 PM onwards = Pure life mode

Here's how it works:

Month Planning: I draft every post, plan every project, automate every repetitive task at the start of each month.

Daily Execution: Each morning, I know exactly what needs doing.

No decisions. No distractions. Just execution.

Clean Cutoff: At 4 PM, I close the laptop. No exceptions. No "quick checks."

Evening Rewards: Gym, friends, learning, walking. Real activities that recharge me for tomorrow.

What Actually Happened

Before: 12-hour work days with constant guilt about not working enough

After: 6-7 hour focused sessions with complete peace afterward

Before: Vacations filled with anxiety about falling behind

After: Planned breaks where I actually disconnect because everything's handled

Before: Burnout every few months from scattered effort

After: 6 months of consistent energy and growing excitement for each day

Don't get me wrong—I still take real vacations.

But now I plan for them.

When I spend 15 days with family or a month exploring somewhere new, I go completely offline because

I've prepared everything in advance.

The difference? Planned rest vs. emergency rest.

The secret wasn't learning to rest.

It was learning to work so completely that rest became possible.

Why This Works

When you know your work is contained—that every important thing will get done in your work window—your mind can actually let go.

When you work with total focus, knowing there's a reward at the end, every task becomes part of a game you're winning.

When your evenings are truly free, they stop feeling like stolen time and start feeling like earned rewards.

I love work now because I do it completely. I enjoy rest now because I've earned it completely.

This only works with ruthless monthly planning and daily structure.

Every project mapped. Every task timed. Every distraction eliminated before you start.

My Second Brain 6.0 system handles this automatically—turning chaos into focused work blocks and guilt-free evenings.

But here's where it gets really interesting: Game Mode.


I've gamified the entire system.

Every completed task gives you XP.

Every milestone unlocks achievements.

You earn coins for consistency that you can spend on real rewards.

It's like turning your productivity into an RPG where you're leveling up your actual life.

Get Second Brain 6.0 with $10 off

Stop feeling guilty about loving work. Start working so well that rest becomes a reward, not a requirement.

Osama (Ols)

P.S. The goal isn't work-life balance. It's work-life separation. When you master that, both become infinitely more enjoyable.

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